Divorce hurts and it's especially difficult and painful when children are involved, Jillian knows first-hand. It's nearly unheard-of for a divorced couple to have a good relationship, let alone be "friends" and maintain the sense of "family" for their children. When you focus on the kids and what's best for them, putting your own feelings/hurts/emotions aside (which is NOT easy), the innocent children you brought into this world benefit, and you just might too.