For most, we can’t control the shape or makeup of our family, particularly after a separation. If a couple separates, how they are able to parent after will depend on different factors such as whether or not their separation was amicable and other things such as safety. Some parents will be able to co-parent, after separation whereas others may choose parallel parenting if they aren’t able to communicate effectively. For some solo parenting may be the only option because of different factors such as safety or if their ex-partner is no longer in the picture.